|A FRIEND’S QUESTION. DON’T READ IT. I ANSWERED.||Oct 16, ’08 12:19 PM
i have a question, enlighten me.,
how can you say n magiging dsposable kind ang isang relationship if you havent try it yet?
kz db we alweiz say not to enter dt kind., d nmn kz porke wordly ung guy ibig sbhin nun ssktan and iiwan n dn tyo db?
and for those who r from church k2lad ntin its easier for us to understand us kz we dnt question things and just bliv in god, but what if taga labas ung mg-aask stin, anung answer?
and how can we knw that it’s d perfct tym na for us, and kung cya n ung ryt person?
and a lot more rights and perfect chuva?
i need your henyo powers.,
this is totally unrelated sakin.,
it made me think and smhow made me confuse.,
Disposable relationships… tsk tsk…
Paano nga ba malalaman kung di natin susubukan? Una, experience ng iba… Paano kung wala kang idea bout the past nung tao? Itanong… Yun nga lang, very subjective and mahirap maging objective kasi we’re always trying to be good in front of everybody that we tend to hide our real feelings.
Sa totoo lang, walang definite answer. As a normal person, we tend to believe in our intuitions. Yun tipong, “Ui, mukhang di maganda kalalabasan nito ah.”, kaya ayun, di natin pinupursue yung gusto natin. For me, magiging disposable ang relationship pag sa simula pa lang, nararamdaman mo nang di ka tatagal sa magiging relationship mo sa tao na yun. Ang nature ng tao, “Kailangan ko muna subukan para aking mapatunayan”. Pero dahil hindi tayo powerful para malaman ang future, kahit ilang taon pa nating ipag-pray kay God ang ating relationship, dadating at dadating ang time ng realization… “Huhu,i’m not Happy anymore.”
Unbiblical answer sa tanong ng “Paano malalaman kung siya na nga ba?”:
CAN YOU IMAGINE YOURSELF KISSING THAT PERSON EVERY MORNING,EVERYDAY OF OUR LIFE? If your answer is yes and you have been praying for that relationship for a long time, maybe, just maybe, He’s/she’s the one for you. DI BA NGA, TAYO YUNG NAMIMILI NG TAONG PAKIKISAMAHAN NATIN? KAHIT ANO PANG SABIHIN NG MGA TAO SA PALIGID MO, IT’S YOU WHO WILL DECIDE WHOM YOU WANT TO SPEND YOUR TIME WITH…
Our God is a God of Order. If what you are pursuing is not in accordance with His will, expect Him to do things in your life that would make you realize that there is something wrong. Sya pa rin naman ang masusunod eh. Si Lord pa!
Tanong: Ang dalawang taong nasa isang relationship, biglang naghiwalay pero maayos ang kanilang pamamaraan, okay ang relationship, okay ang motives, both of them are happy, is their relationship considered a disposable one? For me, it is not… I believe in people. I trust their decisions. I trust their honesty. If you are happy today, maybe you could be happier tomorrow. Just be wise.
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