|LOVE AGAIN||Oct 14, ’08 10:54 AM
Since i was a child, i’ve always heard the word love from different people, in different places, and in different situations. As we all know, this feeling that i personally call a phenomena, has changed the lives of millions, rather, billions of people all around the planet… It is also a subjective feeling… Not two individuals feel the same… IT may be the same love, but not the same level… There is love whenever the person says it does… He’s the one feeling it anyway…
It is said in God’s word in the Book of 1st Corinthians 13:4-7,
Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
Love is one of the best things created by God… It is the same reason why he created us, for us to feel his never ending love…
But it’s always been this love why a person’s life becomes miserable…
1) “I love you, i’d do anything to make you happy…”
===> but what if, the thing that would make me happy is to be loved by the person i love? Remember, it’s not you…
2) “I love you, i promise i’ll change my life for you”
===> what if i don’t love you, you wouldn’t dare change your life?
3) “I love you, you’re the prettiest girl i’ve met”
===> would you still love me if time comes that i’m not pretty anymore?
4) “I love you, can i keep you forever?”
===> How can you keep me forever, if you yourself can’t keep your eyes out of other girls?
5) “”I love you, because–”
===> What if i change everything about me, would you still love me even if i don’t have the things that made you fall for me?
6) “I love you, just tell me that you love me too, i’ll wait forever for you”
===> what if i can’t speak, would you still care waiting for me?
Why would someone say ‘i love you’ if he/she doesn’t mean it?
Why would someone say ‘i care for you’ if he’she doesn’t love the person?
Why would he/she not say ‘i love you’ if all the time, all he/she really wanted is to be with the person forever?
There are things happening in this world that we cannot control. Most of the times, we cannot comprehend..
There are lots of questions in our minds why God allowed these things to happen, even if he doesn’t want us to be hurt? SIMPLE…
He said ‘not him’, did you listen?
He said, ‘don’t go’, you still did…
He said ‘calm down,’ you ran away…
God said ‘please do this’, did you dare do it?
God wanted you to wait, did you wait?
God said ‘be patient’, you asked how long?
God said ‘trust me’, you trusted yourself instead…
===> Now tell me why things are not happening according to your plan? It’s because it’s not you who is in control after all…
===> After you got your heart beat again, you still don’t wanna listen… Here you are again, experiencing love, according to your own understanding…
Control your very own emotions, your own actions… That’s the reason why the satisfaction of loving and being loved is turning into the agony of being heartbroken, or just be shattered…again…